Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Lobster Etiquette

Last month I traveled to Maine with my mom for a mother daughter trip.  This destination is one that we’ve always wanted to visit. Our top things to accomplish on this trip were; eat fresh lobster, drive the coast, see whales in the wild, and tour the beautiful scenery. As we drove the cost we made several stops along the way taking in the unique towns. We began our journey in Portland, continuing on to Freeport, Georgetown, Boothbay Harbor, Rockland, and Camden. If you’ve never been to Maine let me tell you it is beautiful. Its atmosphere is much like northern Michigan with its fresh air and greenery.

As they say, “When in Rome do as Romans do”. Well I thought that having lobster at a lobster shack on the wharf would be a great way to experience Maine's culture. It was at Harraseeket Lobster Shack in South Freeport that we were caught off guard and out of our element.
 
As we approached the outdoor ordering window we agreed to each have 2 large lobsters with a side of corn. As we placed our order the women asked, “Cooked or alive?” “COOKED” we said in unison. As we waited to pay the women took two large lobsters from their holding tank and placed them on the scale in front of us, (STILL ALIVE) and preceded to tell us the cost as she threw them into the boiling water!

As we waited for our lobster we both reveled how seeing your lobster alive before you’re about to eat it lowered your hunger level substantially. Soon our order was up. As we proceeded to crack open our meal, the reality came fast. These lobsters had not been cleaned! Their insides and bowels were still inside spewing onto our plates! Talk about losing your appetite! My mother and I stared at each other in shock as the common sense started to set in...”What were we thinking”! Of course if you boil something live there would be no chance to clean it first! Quickly my mom got up to ask if this is how they normally come. The women informed her that to order a lobster that has already been cleaned, and cooked is called, “The Lazy Man’s Lobster”.  The lazy man lobster could be ordered at any local restaurant. “Good to know”, my mom said and returned to throw our $65 meal in the trash. From that point on in our adventure through Maine we ordered the lazy man lobster and although we visited a few more lobster shacks, we only stopped to take pictures.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Memories

Pictures are a must when traveling. They can retell a great adventure over and over again. Besides photos what are other ways you can remember a trip? Some people collect shot glasses, t-shirts, key chains, magnets and so on. The list of souvenirs is endless. The problem with these souvenirs is that they're not useful! How many key chains can you really have? Also, where do you keep all of these trinkets?

Through my travels I've decided to be intentional on my purchases. The trip alone costs enough to where souvenirs seem to be a waste of money with no real connection or memory of the trip itself. So if I make a purchase I try to buy something that is authentic and hand made from that particular area. It's usually something that I can display in my home or a piece of jewelry. For example when I was traveling through Bulgaria we stopped in one the country’s oldest towns, Koprivshtitsa and it was there that I purchased my one and only souvenir, a handmade ceramic bowl. This bowl now resides on a table in the foyer of my home. It is a lovely piece of artwork and brings back wonderful memories of great old town I once had the opportunity to wonder.

Another idea, which may seem typical but is very affordable, is a postcard. The catch is, don't send the postcard to a relative or friend, but send it to yourself! Send it towards the end of your trip when you can highlight on all the wonderful things you've just experienced. This not only allows you to reminisce by going back and viewing all your different travels but can act as a collection as well for each postcard that you send will contain a stamp of that country! As you start to collect these put them in a small scrap book and in time you will find it to be a diary of sorts and a story of a lifetime that will be a keepsake forever!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

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